At this point, I ask the person that I am sitting with whether they feel the chill. Often they have not been aware of the cold until I mention it and cofirm that they feel the chill as well. (Often, Spirits are felt when there is the presence of cold air. ) At that point, I strive to get past my critical mind and ask if we have a spirit visitor. If the answer is yes, I will struggle to suspend my disbelief again and open up to the possibilities. Often the visitor is a parent that has died and wishes to share messages of love and forgiveness. These sessions are quite poignant and deeply healing . The healing is really for all of us. We are gently reassured that we are not alone and that that death is not an ending. This is an area of healing that is very dear to my heart and I will talk about spiritual healing more in future posts.