Everything is an opportunity to see more clearly and take a step back from our strong opinions.
I believe that we are all on a path to see and feel things more clearly. We fuzz events and people up by pretending that they are better or worse than we think they are. Perhaps take a few moments to see clearly what is going on in your life and decide whether you like who you are right now. If not do something else. There will always be plenty of opportunities to do things differently.